I now have a clearer picture of my goal. I love my counselling but believe I could not, or more to the point, don’t want to do it 5 days a week. I have learnt I would like to do workshops too. I want to make a difference to my ‘Xmas tree.’ I want to show to those who believe themselves thick that they are far from it, they have hidden strengths.”

I thoroughly enjoyed the sessions and found them varied. Meeting the other group members was particularly good. I worked with almost everyone and each person had plenty to contribute. I felt quite sad when we all went our separate ways. I thought that the way the 3 of you worked seamlessly (or so it appeared) together was very impressive.

I keep getting ideas of [different] things I might pursue. Also, I realise that I have always seen myself as someone to blend into the background. After this course I think I should move out of my comfort zone sometimes and perhaps speak up more!”

I have simplified it a lot, but its fascinating to see what modern science is telling us about ourselves.

Jon Smith
PotentialV

The threat or fact of unemployment caused by the recession can indeed be a launch-pad for reassessment of values, talents and goals but the panic of sudden and momentous change can leave people stunned. My guess is that few people can quickly accomplish change to a new life perspective and that caring support can greatly aid their transition. Perhaps a good way to build their confidence in a fresh start is to experience the joy that comes from incremental steps toward their own authentic vision, whatever it may be. Patience will be needed; it may take time to recalibrate a value system that has been trained and distorted by acquisition.

The most helpful book I have read recently on this topic is ‘The Undefended Leader – Leading Out of Who You Are’ by Simon P Walker